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The Flyboy & The Aviatrix

Feb 6, 2013

The Aviator's Wife by Melanie Benjamin

Release Date: January 15, 2013
Publisher: Random House | Delacorte
Pages: 416 pages
Source: NetGalley; e-ARC
Amazon | Goodreads

Summary (shortened from NetGalley)
For much of her life, Anne Morrow, the shy daughter of the U.S. ambassador to Mexico, has stood in the shadows of those around her, including her millionaire father and vibrant older sister, who often steals the spotlight. Then Anne, a college senior with hidden literary aspirations, travels to Mexico City to spend Christmas with her family. There she meets Colonel Charles Lindbergh, fresh off his celebrated 1927 solo flight across the Atlantic. Enthralled by Charles's assurance and fame, Anne is certain the celebrated aviator has scarcely noticed her. But she is wrong.

Charles sees in Anne a kindred spirit, a fellow adventurer, and her world will be changed forever... The fairy-tale life she once longed for will bring heartbreak and hardships, ultimately pushing her to reconcile her need for love and her desire for independence, and to embrace, at last, life's infinite possibilities for change and happiness.

Thoughts on The Aviator's Wife
I love historical fiction, but I especially love historical fiction that's based on real people. I've never actually read anything by Melanie Benjamin, and I was excited for this to be my first. The blurb compares The Aviator's Wife to The Paris Wife, and I loved that book so I definitely expected good things going into this one. Not to mention my love for this cover - isn't it just so lovely?! I adore the chic outfit, traveling case and the tiny bit of the airplane hinting at what's inside.

While I recognize Charles Lindbergh's name from his solo flight across the Atlantic, I honestly didn't know very much about his marriage to Anne Morrow. Narrated from Anne's perspective, the book allows you to see Charles and their relationship through her eyes.

What I found so interesting about this book is that it's very much about Anne's personal growth. When you first meet her, she is the shy and overlooked diplomat's daughter. With one beautiful sister and one charming sister, she is merely the reliable one. The way she talks about herself and acts around others indicates that she has really low self-esteem, and those feelings end up playing a huge role in her interaction with Charles because their relationship seems to be largely based on her hero worship of him.

It was a bit difficult to read about her fawning adoration of him based solely on his heroic flight and made it really hard to like her at first. I wanted to reach through the pages and shake her by the shoulders on more than one occasion! Her life is dominated by Charles - his opinions, his directions, his dreams - but it seems like that's a pretty accurate picture of their marriage relationship. So, I certainly don't fault the book for Anne's portrayal since it seems like these feelings and actions were very true of the real Anne Morrow Lindbergh early on in her marriage. It was hard to see Anne step back into the shadows around Charles, despite her own major achievements (like becoming the first licensed female glider pilot in the United States).

After the birth of their firstborn, there's a pretty shocking event that completely shifts everything. If you know anything about the history of this family, you'll probably know what I'm referring to here. However, I actually didn't know that the Lindberghs were famous for more than just flight, so I won't spoil it in case you are in the dark like I was. That event marked a turning point in Anne's life and in the book. As a reader, you could see her attitude shifting and recognize her starting to show more agency. I became much more engrossed in the book after that point. Anne was so talented, and yet so blind to her own worth for so long! I have to commend Melanie for taking a problematic (and often unlikeable) character and actually making me care about her journey towards independence.

One of my favorite things about reading this was that I was learning new things about a couple who spent most of their lives in the public eye. I love when historical fiction actually teaches me new things! One small example - I'd never heard the word aviatrix before. It's just a term for a woman who is an aviator, but I love that I was introduced to a new word!

I really loved learning more about this famous couple, and it left me with an appetite for more! Melanie offers some suggestions at the end for further reading on Charles and Anne Lindbergh, and I loved that she included those recommendations. Despite finding Anne difficult to like at first, I ended up really enjoying this novel. It was an added bonus that I got to learn more about that time in our history and the Lindberghs' contribution to aviation! I'd definitely recommend this to fans of historical fiction or anyone interested in history or aviation.

So Quotable
"And listening to him, I realized, with a thrill, that I did want to fly; to experience this holy thing, to soar above the earth as he had done. To be above all; to be above worry and fear and, yes, petty strife, but mainly, simply to be above myself - this awkward body, this mind full of doubt and heart full of longing."

*I received a copy of this book from Random House in exchange for an honest review. I was not compensated in any way for my review.

Trip Down Memory Lane

Feb 5, 2013

Top Ten Tuesday is a weekly feature hosted by The Broke and The Bookish. Every week they post a new topic/Top Ten list and invite everyone to share their own answers. I'm so obsessed with lists!

Top Ten Best Bookish Memories


1. Grandmothers Who Love to Read
I've mentioned this on the blog before, but I'm blessed to have two grandmothers who both love to read. It's so fun to be able to talk books with both of them, especially since my parents are huge readers. My Grammy would actually buy me books for birthdays and holidays and would always write the date and a sweet note on the first page. I love pulling them off my shelves and looking at what she's given me over the years. Such sweet memories!


2. Savannah From Savannah in Paris
I went to a small private high school, and one thing I got to do through school was go on a two-week summer trip to Europe with some of my classmates. It was an incredible trip for many reasons, but there is one bookish memory that fits with this theme. My friends I fell in love with the Savannah books (Savannah from Savannah, Savannah Comes Undone and Savannah By the Sea) by author Denise Hildreth. I got everyone hooked and Savannah from Savannah made the rounds with my group of friends. We didn't get to visit Paris, but we did have a long layover in the Paris airport. While many students slept, my friend I pulled out our books and spent some time with our new Southern sister. The picture on the right shows my copy today - worn in and well-loved from all its adventures abroad! 


3. Dear America With My Cousin
My cousin, Rachel, and I would usually see each other in the summers and during Thanksgiving break. We didn't live in the same state, so we had to wait for family vacations to spend time together. And when we were little, we fell head over heels in love with the Dear America books. We were so obsessed with them that we once tried to convince two little girls we were hanging out with at the playground that our names with Elizabeth and Marie and we've moved to Arkansas from England and France, respectively. I still get tickled thinking about it today!


4. Read-Alongs With My Cousin
Rachel and I still live in different states (sad!), but we also still love to read. Recently, we've started reading books "together" (at the same time) and texting or calling each other to discuss said book. It's like a book club with two members. Our current read is Les Miserables and there's nothing I love more than a text from her saying things like, "Here's to hoping you read the nun section tonight..." These will be bookish memories I'll cherish forever!


5. One Year Anniversary in Seaside
I know I included this in my review of The Lost Girls, but it still makes the list. My wedding anniversary is July 2, and we happened to be at the beach last year to celebrate. My husband and I enjoyed a delicious dinner in Seaside, followed by a stop at one of my favorite bookstores - Sundog Books. Of course, I couldn't leave without buying a book, and I decided on The Lost Girls. I'll always love this book because of the memory of buying it on my first anniversary. Such a special day!


6. Pride and Prejudice From Japan
I just included this in my post from last week about collecting copies of Pride and Prejudice, but it's worth repeating because it really is one of my ten best bookish memories. My husband sometimes has to travel for his job, and he spent a few weeks in Japan at one point last year. He asked the translator with them to write down Pride and Prejudice in Japanese on a little slip of paper. He then took that slip of paper with him all over the city - visiting bookstores and trying to find me another copy for my collection. He gave me the two-volume copy when he got home, and I've never been so happy to have married a man who understands the way to my heart.


7. Jane Austen Museum in Bath
I studied abroad in Oxford, England, during college. It was an incredible experience, and I have many fond memories from the trip. But my best bookish memory involves convincing a few other girls to spend one of our weekends in Bath - where we visited the Roman Baths, a fashion museum, Stonehenge (which isn't too far from Bath) and... the Jane Austen Museum! Sadly, I'll never be able to go to a Jane Austen (tear) so it was really fun to be able to spend some time in a place dedicated solely to her. Plus, I picked up a copy of Pride and Prejudice in the gift shop!


8. Reading Harry Potter for the First Time
I was really late to the whole Harry Potter obsession. I was convinced I wouldn't like them, so I avoided reading them for years. Then, right after I got married, my husband wanted to have a marathon of all the movies. I decided I didn't care about reading them first (regret that now)... and then I fell in love and bought them all from Target in a moment of obsession. And I read them like a crazy person! It's a favorite memory for two reasons: 1) the books are just so special and memorable and 2) we lived in a different city for two months after getting married and that's where I bought these. They always remind me of that time right after we got married!


9. Scouring San Francisco for Bookstores
I was in San Francisco last year for a work trip, and I had some time in the afternoons to scour the city. I found two of the coolest independent bookstores while there - and I love the memories I've got of wandering the city and searching through two stores for a few special books to take home with me. I love finding an independent bookstore in any city I visit when traveling, if possible, and buying a book while I'm there. Got to support bookstores in every city!


10. Getting My Kindle(s)
My husband bought me my first Kindle two years ago while we were still dating. I had been researching them for months - trying to decide if I wanted to take the e-reader plunge! And I was so excited when I opened the box and found a Kindle inside. He definitely knows how to make this bookish heart happy! And this year he got me the new Paperwhite, which I'm so obsessed with! I've read so many incredible books on both of these devices and fell in love with reading on them. I still buy hard copies, but I'm definitely reading more and more on my Kindle!

January in Review

Feb 4, 2013

Sarah Hearts
I can hardly believe it's already February! Here's what I read, what happened on So Obsessed With and my favorite posts from around the blogosphere in January.

BOOKS I READ

01. The Ask and The Answer - Patrick Ness
02. Camille - Tess Oliver
03. Finally & Forever - Robin Jones Gunn
04. Taschen's Paris - Angelika Taschen
05. Taschen's London - Angelika Taschen
06. Safe Haven - Nicholas Sparks
07. Graceling - Kristin Cashore
08. Unearthly - Cynthia Hand
09. Celebrating Pride and Prejudice - Susannah Fullerton
10. Hallowed - Cynthia Hand 
11. Under the Never Sky - Veronica Rossi
12. Roar and Liv - Veronica Rossi
13. Alice's Adventures in Wonderland - Lewis Carroll
14. Through the Ever Night - Veronica Rossi

ON THE BLOG

I reviewed: Where We Belong by Emily Giffin,  Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn, For Darkness Shows the Stars by Diana Peterfreund, Divergent & Insurgent by Veronica Roth, Code Name Verity by Elizabeth Wein, The Preacher's Bride, The Doctor's Lady and Unending Devotion by Jody Hedlund, The American Heiress by Daisy Goodwin, All Roads Lead to Austen by Amy Smart, Judging a Book By Its Lover by Lauren Leto, I Capture the Castle by Dodie Smith, I Never Promised You a Goodie Bag by Jennifer Gilbert, The Girls of Murder City by Douglas Perry, The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks by Rebecca Skloot and Celebrating Pride and Prejudice by Susannah Fullerton


I quoted one fabulous author: Tahereh Mafi




POSTS I LOVED

One or Two (Or Maybe More?) by Alexa at Alexa Loves Books

Pride and Prejudice, the questionable hotness of Colin Firth, and how I came to actively root for Lydia Bennet by Heidi at Bunbury in the Stacks

Dude, You TOTALLY Have Time To Read by April at Good Books and Good Wine

I'm Always Reading: Bookish Stress Edition! by Asheley at Into the Hall of Books

How do you slay the green eyed beast? by Lisa at Lisa is Busy Nerding

Books Get Me All Choked Up Sometimes by Jamie at Perpetual Page-Turner

Picture This: Introduction by Judith at Paper Riot

How Do You Read? by Kristilyn at Reading in Winter

Building My Secret Library by Meg at Write Meg!

Stacking the Shelves {4}

Feb 3, 2013

STACKING THE SHELVES
Be sure to check what everyone else has added to their shelves over at Tynga's Reviews!

From the Library:

Bought with Birthday Gift Card:
  • The Passing Bells by Phillip Rock - This was totally on a previous Stacking the Shelves post because I got it for my Kindle but then I kinda wanted a hard copy so...
  • Circles of Time by Phillip Rock - Book two so I can continue the family saga when I finish book one!
  • The Snow Child by Eowyn Ivey - I've been wanting to read this for a while now 
  • The House of the Spirits by Isabel Allende - This was an unplanned purchase but I totally fell in love with the cover and had to take it home

For Review from NetGalley:
  • The Tin Horse by Janice Steinberg - The blurb compared it to A Tree Grows in Brooklyn and that's one of my favorites so I hope it lives up to that comparison
  • The Aviator's Wife by Melanie Benjamin - I love historical fiction based on real events, so of course I want to read about the marriage of Charles Lindbergh & Anne Morrow Lindbergh
  • Someday, Someday, Maybe by Lauren Graham - This is one celebrity book I have no shame reading and fully expect to love this book
  • The Bracelet by Roberta Gately - I was really intrigued by this book's synopsis and its focus on human trafficking
  • Shadow on the Crown by Patricia Bracewell - I love reading about royalty, so I hope I love this book about the Queen of Normandy in medieval times
  • Me Before You by Jojo Moyes - I wanted to read this after it was the Blogger Recommendation on Rather Be Reading's January Big Kids' Table post

"...in the improvement of her mind by extensive reading.”

Sarah Coleman, Inkymole illustrations
As they say, all good things must come to an end. I've had so much fun celebrating the 200th anniversary of my favorite novel, Pride and Prejudice, with all of you. I hope you've enjoyed some of my ramblings and that it's made you want to revisit the novel or pick it up for the first time. To finish out the week of celebrating, I've included a recap of my posts and shared some of my favorite news articles and blog posts about Austen and her beloved novel. 
ON MY BLOG

"It is a truth universally acknowledged." - My love for Pride and Prejudice explained
"Obstinate, headstrong girl!" - The ten most frustrating characters in Pride and Prejudice
"I declare after all there is no enjoyment like reading!" - A review of Celebrating Pride and Prejudice
"I was in the middle before I knew that I had begun." - On collecting copies of Pride and Prejudice
"I am excessively diverted." - Seven things to watch after reading Pride and Prejudice

IN THE NEWS


AROUNG THE BLOGOSPHERE

Austenprose, Which edition of Pride and Prejudice should you read?
Forever Young Adult, It Is A Truth Universally Acknowledged (P&P Review)
Forever Young Adult, Pride, Prejudice and Veronica

via The Other Austen
Happy reading, watching and celebrating Pride and Prejudice!
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